Friday 1 May 2020

My Story in 2020








MY STORY AT 70 .


I am alone, lockdown in my own home.
Last week,  I celebrated my seventieth birthday in a style unimaginable, indeed!

My husband passed in 2002 and to escape the family limelight on my birthdays, I found a novel way to dodge the family glare by experiencing adventurous life abroad ! One of these exciting occasion which immediately comes to my mind was in 2009. A car journey to Death Valley of California through the treacherous mountainous region. Stopping over for a night in a motel, I found a bath full of colourful balloons and birthday cake for breakfast! A big birthday surprise discretely conjured up by my companions. The following year,  I found myself in Bangladesh for charity work and to my surprise my  birthday celebration went on for a whole week! As I travelled from one village to the next I was showered with unwanted gifts, birthday cakes and a jack fruit as a special treat!

This year, as the news of this invisible monster,( under the official name of Covid19) was rapidly reaching our shores , my  plan to travel abroad was quickly replaced  by a plan to spend, few days by the sea side in UK. A month before my big day, the news of the  lockdown , quashed all my hopes of even, leaving my own front door ! Alone and in quarantine , I  found that I was unable to escape the family spotlight to mark my big day. On my birthday, I woke up to floods of telephone calls, video links, smiling faces at my window, greeting cards and gifts , including , canned food, loo rolls and soap were left in my porch!  At the end of the day I was exhausted but felt extremely overwhelmed by the whole day’s experience.

Like the rest of the country, I am  patiently waiting for the invisible monster to vanish from our shores. However, my life , in quarantine has given me plenty of time to reflect on my novel birthday adventures . In the years to come, I wonder if there will be any listening ears for my mythical tales of my very exceptional birthday bash of 2020?

2 comments:

  1. By reading your story I too imagined of all the things I had thought of doing in these holidays but it's the destiny playing it's role in everyone's lives. Hope the lockdown open up fast . The first thing I want to do is to see my mother . Day dreaming of having a long holiday with my mom .

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  2. Hey gramps!
    You're inspiring. Even after suffering a lot of pain you are still coping up. Living your life like this is the end! That's exactly how it is supposed to be.
    I dreamt the same as you. Alone, isolated from people, no complains and no problems, but instead I got stuck in best website development company and top mobile application development company. Now as these tough times made the survival difficult, I had no option.

    Condolences for your loss.
    Happy for you!

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